First subject of this blog is 'Run or Hide?' ... I woke up with this question in my head this morning! Odd i know but its something I think most girls (maybe lads, i duno) think about. So... when you have to face a situation that is something that hurts or means arguing or fighting for something you want... do you run away and hide, or do you stick it out and try and work it out?? ...
Personally I run and hide, why? Bcus I can't face getting hurt or hurting someone else I guess... in my eyes if theres a disagreement or someone is arguing sometimes I just think they would be better off without me ... so I hide! It the same situation with talking i guess... I'm not the type of person to talk about things. I hate feeling like everyones looking at me... like I don't want people to think I am only interested in the way I feel! And I guess when you are faced with an akward moment when your being asked a question you don't wanna answer ... you always put 'dm' or 'dw' but inside it hurts and you wish you could just talk to them... so i guess running away isnt always the best option?
Second subject is the fact of what to do when it comes between choosing 'the good guy' or 'the bad guy' ? ... This is what one of my mates is going through at the moment ... but when doesnt it happen? Such a hard question tbh... do you go for a happy life but no arguments no danger? Or do you go for a player, risk of getting hurt, yet more excitement? My theory to this is I guess when your younger you can afford to take the risks... you have so much ahead of you ... and I guess it is unusal for some young girl to find their 'soul mate' when there so young; not saying that can never happen. But when your younger I would say take the risk... as it may not always be there! End of the day no girl wants to settle down with a guy thats gonna mess them around and hurt them ... so when your older I think you have to choose 'the good guy' :)
Next is a subject that one of the girls brought up to me today... and i think everyone boy or girl has these moments. So your in the heat of the moment, you end up doing something and it feels right... perfect even; but then a few weeks maybe months you look back and think why did i do that?!? And not just with lads ect like the clothes you chose to wear or something your brought. Regret always occurs throughout life but does it stay there or can you let it go. I think that depends upon what it is... speaking to the guys we all have them moments and memories that we look back on and laugh and completely regret; we all wish that one of us would have stopped the other... but no because at that point in time it was right to everyone not just yourself!! Yet I guess if you never do anything wrong and have no regrets you won't have anything to learn from... no lesson learnt. But something to consider would be at that point in time it was perfect and you wouldn't of changed it for the world... so how could it be something to regret? At that point you were happy.
So one of the girls asked me to give her a theme an idea so i am thinking along the lines of ... ermmm... (thinking here) ... how about when you act different around different people? like split personality... for certain friendship groups you act in different ways... OR... the theme above... good or bad?? that could be interesting :)
Neways... gives you something to think about :) <3
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